Friday, June 24, 2005

Balance in LIFE!

A close pal shared this story (thanks KS)... It'll hit the core of your conscience. Then another friend told me that his daughter passed away during a road accident and the greatest regret he has was not spending enough time with his daughter before...

His wise words to 'workaholics' like me...
'What I do today is important, because I will never have today again'

While all aspects of our life are important, without a balance, you become addicted and like all addictions you lose:
· No balance with your family - you lose them
· No balance with your work - you lose your perspective and you actually lose focus on the important aspects of your job.
· No balance with yourself - you forget who you are and when you retire you have nothing! Or worse than that, if you lose your job through a company sale or downsizing you lose your identity.

He went on to tell me that who we are is NOT what we do to make a living. Who we are is a balance of our family, our work, ourselves! It truly was the best advice I ever received."

"When you go to work...
1. Look at what you have on your desk
2. Make a list of everything you have to get done
3. And beside that list write the impact of not doing it
4. Then focus only on the top three items that have the most impact.
5. Do that everyday for a week.

At first, you will find it difficult to leave. But, after awhile, you will find that you will have more energy, and you will be more focused in your work because you have BALANCE! There are times when we have to lose balance- a special project at work, or a family matter at home but
consciously focusing on balance keeps everything in check."

"Balance of Life" - important for us ALL!

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